Someone one asked me what it took to be
successful, this is a difficult question because it all depends on what you
actually mean by success, you could be referring to success being
an expression of your life in the terms of an external goal which could be for
example; the attainment of higher social status, achievement of a goal, an
academic achievement or even just a promotion at work.
Those of you with an away from mentality you
may also define your success as not being a failure, not being poor, or not
having to do menial work.
Whatever you drive either towards
something or away from something perhaps one of the important factors is not
the definition, instead it is the traits that you need in your character to
actually achieve whatever the goal is that you have set yourself.
But before you start on your journey with the
traits that you need, perhaps take a step back and really think about where you
really want to go in life, because I would like to think that success is
instead about being able to make time in your life to do the small intangible
things that make all of the difference.
When you look back on your life it’s
these small moment that you will remember, that make you feel happy and what
gives your life real value.
To get this point across perhaps read The Story of the Mexican Fisherman which
may well add a different perspective to the term success especially if you are
only trying to measure it with external or materialistic goals.
Success in my eyes is about the journey, it is
about the challenges on the way, it’s about where you have come from, and it’s
about what you can’t measure that gives your life real value, success is about
picking yourself back up and learning from failure and it’s about doing your
best and doing it in the right way and in the words of Dale Carnegie;
Success is getting what you want,
Happiness is wanting what you get.
There may be a time when the price
of success takes away some of the things that are really valuable in your
life, so my final advice to you is to concentrate on giving your life real
value and depth and not to just strive for the shallowness of success at all
cost measured by materialistic goals.
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