Thursday 5 November 2015

WHY DOES THE LAW OF ATTRACTION NOT WORK FOR ME????????





You want this and that. You want success, your own business or to be an actor or musician or perhaps a doctor or aspire to be a Millionaire.

You try visulisation techniques and have experimented with the laws of attraction etc… Still what you seek has eluded you and you wonder what it is that you are doing wrong.

I heard a really cool song the other day that got me thinking about stuff and why it is that the things we say we really want have not come to fruition yet.
 
The song is by the singer Courtney Barnett and it’s called – ‘Nobody really cares if you don’t go to the party’.
 
This song got me thinking about life and all the ups and downs and struggles we go through in our journey’s to what it is that we want.
 
This is exactly what life is like. The Universe does not care what you do, whether you do it well, indifferent or badly. The rules are quite simple really. Perhaps too simple that’s why we don’t follow them because it can’t be a simple formula right? 

The Universe doesn’t really care if you don’t come to its party (metaphorically speaking of course). In fact, there are so many people at the party in this Universe that you wouldn’t be missed. Life goes on around us for each and every individual all forging ahead and fighting battles to succeed. All pushing out their dreams about this or dreams and desires about that. So, it’s okay not to join in if you don’t want anything to change.
 
But here is the thing in life.. .

You want to go to the party really, don’t you? Otherwise why do you have the dreams you have and desires and yearnings to be something else. However, most of us end up settling for something else because we don’t really believe we can have what we want. Those things happen to others, the ones that are lucky right? Blessed? 

Secretly though you want to join in on the fun and ride the wave and why not indeed. If only you knew what the secret was.

But here is the thing we need to understand; the party or Universe is not going to coming to you.  It is not just going to drop into your lap without any effort on your part…you have to go to it? That’s right you have to put some effort into making things happen and take some action to get things moving. The inertia is frightening too as the harder you try the more the Universe seems to fight back against you.
 
So many people think that the success will just come chapping on their door. That it is just luck that it happens at all and if it is meant to be then surely it would have happened by now.
I’m afraid the Universe doesn’t work that way unfortunately. You have to work at whatever it is you really want and take action. You have to find out where this party in the Universe is at and go kick the bloody door in and get in there amongst it to get some of that bounty. Yes, without taking action just dreaming about things is not going to make it happen.
 
There is another line in the song by Courtney Barnett: “I wanna go out, but I wanna stay home”
Well, with that kind of indecision what do you think is going to happen with your dream?
You can’t have it both ways. Action is the first step and no journey was ever completed without the first step being taken.

You either get active and busy and join the party…or stay at home and watch other people do the thing you would like to do…or let others steal your dream. I’m not even sure which is worse?
The Universe is waiting for you to make your mind up. Are you coming?
 
Doesn’t matter if you don’t but without taking that step I guarantee nothing will change until you do!

Join the Party and follow that dream…
 
Rick

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