Our
relationship with Money
What is Money
Primarily
money is a medium or means of exchange. And it is a means of economic
activities. Nothing more! We use money to trade what we have for what we want.
We
all want money, we work for it and think about it. Some of us chase it
frantically. While the creation and growth of money seems somewhat intangible,
money is the means of getting the things we need and want. In modern times
money has become a vehicle of human life.
When
I think about money, several questions come to my mind. Different people have
different opinions about money. What are your views about money?
Do
you think money does everything for us?
Is
there something wrong in having money?
Can
you serve others if you are leading a life of lack and limitations?
Money
is a means and it is neutral in itself. Whatever is the pattern of your life,
money will just enhance it. If you have money and you are happy, you will
become more happy. If you have money and you are unhappy, you will become more
unhappy because you will not know what to do with your money.
Money and Spirituality
Money
and spirituality are not antagonistic. In my view money is not a paper bill
only, it an intangible spiritual thing. It is as neutral and as spiritual as
anything else in the world. Money and spirituality can be wonderful partners.
We have to understand the nature of their partnership and let it flourish in
our lives. We can use this beautiful partnership for our own growth and
fulfillment, and that of the others around us.
Our
spirituality is primarily determined by our conduct, our contribution to the
growth of others and our obedience to God, and not whether we are rich or poor.
Myths about Money
People have different myths
about money in different parts of the world. Let us discuss some common myths.
1. Money is the root of all evil.
2. Rich people are greedy.
3. Rich people are materialistic. They worship money.
4. Rich people are not spiritual.
5. If you get lot of money, money will change you into a bad person.
6. The only way to have more money is to deprive others of it.
7. To become wealthy you have to give up time that should be spent with family or for spiritual pursuits.
8. Desire for money or wealth is a sin.
9. Good people give away their extra money.
10. Money isn’t everything.
1. Money is the root of all evil.
2. Rich people are greedy.
3. Rich people are materialistic. They worship money.
4. Rich people are not spiritual.
5. If you get lot of money, money will change you into a bad person.
6. The only way to have more money is to deprive others of it.
7. To become wealthy you have to give up time that should be spent with family or for spiritual pursuits.
8. Desire for money or wealth is a sin.
9. Good people give away their extra money.
10. Money isn’t everything.
If you want to align your
mind to wealth creation, dump these negative myths and look at some other
perspectives.
Other Perspectives about our
relationship with money
Our
relationship with Money
Money
is not the root of all evil. Money in itself is a neutral thing. How far is it
practical to work for free? There has to be a healthy exchange of energy.
Have
you ever studied the causes of crimes in the world? The causes of evil are lack
of money or obsession for money. One should not be possessive about money, but
should be able to use it wisely.
It is
not the creation of wealth that is wrong, but the love of money for its own
sake.
-
Margaret Thatcher
If
you want to be of service to others, if you want to live a life of purpose and
deep spiritual meaning, how well can you do it if you lack money and a large
part of your time and energy is being spent to make both ends meet? When you
are struggling hard to meet your own basic needs, you have less time, energy,
inspiration and money to pursue spiritual goals and help others.
Therefore,
desiring to be rich and wealthy is not a sin. It is our purpose that determines
whether our desire to be rich and wealthy is a noble desire or otherwise. We
are in a better position to help others if we are financially well positioned
ourselves. The key lies in balance. Let money remain your servant. Do not allow
it to become your master, do not allow it to control you.
Money
is a personality magnifier. It brings out the true person within you. If you
are a selfish and nasty person by nature, having money will make you even more
nasty and selfish. However, if you are a kind, generous and loving person deep
down inside, money will magnify your goodness. Money helps you to maximize
other important values such as family, career, health, spirituality and
relationships.
It is
possible to be a billionaire and yet very peaceful and spiritually aware. Put
your idealism aside and think honestly – what your real views about money are.
If you are a spiritual person by nature, money will allow you to do more of
God’s work. You will touch the lives of many people and help them to grow. It
is a known fact that many of the wealthiest people in the world are extremely
spiritual. Many truly wealthy people believe they are just the custodian’s of
God’s wealth and they don’t own this money. Wealthy people actually create more
wealth for other people. Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, has created
maximum value for others by creating Windows and Microsoft.
The
three things which we all desire and which are necessary for our highest
expression and complete development are Love, Health and Wealth.
Therefore,
we need to live for all three – mind, body and soul. Real life means harmony
among mind, body and soul, and their complete expression. The use of material
things helps us to achieve this harmony and expression of our being.
In conclusion
Acquiring
money in itself is a spiritual and fulfilling endeavour. More so when you spend
a significant part of your money for helping others. There is nothing wrong in
being rich and wealthy, as long as you do not neglect other areas of your life
such as your conduct, health, family, spiritual pursuits.
Universe
is abundant. There is inexhaustible supply of resources and money for
everybody. God does not want us to be impoverished and lead a life of lack and
scarcity. On the contrary he wants us to enjoy a prosperous life.
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