LEADERS LISTEN...

Leaders listen to what is said and talk very little. Not only do they hear what the other person is saying they process it and understand the meaning of what is said before they ever respond.

Commit to listen to everything that is said before you comment. That means not only hearing but listen to the other person. Not many of us really do that because most people talk too much but in reality actually saying very little.

Leaders have many traits but this may be one of the most important aspects that set’s a good leader apart.  They have the ability to listen to others views without interruption, something which has great value if we put it into practice in life. That is a phenomenal attribute to have as it has to be said most of us actually ‘butt-in’ before the other person has finished which is not only rude but it falls short when making decisions if we have not listened to all the facts first.

We have two ears and two eyes but only one tongue. Perhaps the great design was to point out to us the importance of listening. We should hear and see twice as much as we actually speak about.

How many of you have a wife or husband who complains that you don’t listen to them?

Listening is actually a skill to be acquired.

Try the next time when you are with something and not actually say anything until you have heard everything that the other person is saying before you comment. Listen, really listen to what they are saying and take it all in before you let your thoughts kick in for a response.

You’ll find that people actually appreciate that you allowed them to complete what it was they wanted to say. It shows that you value them and their input to whatever the issue is. By becoming a better listener you will become a better leader. It will greatly assist your decision making capability too.

Your colleagues and friends will be happier for it and respect you more.

Leaders lead they don’t bully. They listen before they make a decision.

Be that Leader Today!

Rick